I love book shops… Yes, I’m that girl which is “old fashioned” and will always prefer having a physical book or CD in her hands than to buy it online as kindle or just have it downloaded on my iTunes. As I’m browsing through the rows of massive amount of books, looking for some inspiration as well as a possible Christmas presents to some of my dear people, I come across a book… Book which imprinted a “WHAT?!” type of grin on my face.
Book is titled “The highly sensitive person”. Could this be true? Could it be for real that somebody else is feeling the way I do and it’s nothing to be ashamed of or nothing that is wrong about me, but it REALLY does exist! A person who is sensitive in a sense that for example a certain movie, music, sound, picture, person will tick off a certain flow of feelings… Feelings so strong and real that they consume you! At times, those feelings consume you in the best way possible with a huge dose of energy and creativity, while at times, they drain you… For the highly sensitive people like myself, it doesn’t take much to react to or absorb everything that’s surrounding us.
I have always thought that something is “off” or wrong about me for always feeling so much and everything so deeply. I knew from the start that it won’t be easy to live with this type of personality.. .The one that always cares, sees, wants and feels more than others… The one that carries her heart in her hands and not locked, deep down inside of her chest.
Giving my heart comes natural and “easy” to me, because that’s what I as a highly sensitive person do… I feel for others, I feel their suffering as much as I feel their happiness and if I can, in any way possible make up a certain person’s day with my highly sensitive soul and tools that I’ve been given, I will do that without thinking twice.
Feelings are the strangest force in this world! Every war, every fight, every bigger or smaller decision comes from feelings!! Feelings = reaction = situation! Never forget that before you react and conclude something.
More love, more understanding of others… More caring of whom and how we give our heart out to would make us all a bit more sensitive and available to hear and see often than not, somebody else’s happiness, pain, thoughts, worries…
My outfit: Bomber jacket (HERE), Band tee & blouse ( HERE & HERE ), Bag ( HERE ), Skirt ( HERE ), Boots ( HERE ), Bracelet ( HERE )
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You are too cute! Love this look and this post!
xo, Jennifer
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Thank you my sweet Jen!
Love the look! Kisses
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Thank you!
Does high sensitivity come with fragility as well Natalie?
I for myself find it very hard to be around very sensitive people. I read once in a psychology article, very sensitive people are very narcissists and selfish.
During my school my best friend was very sensitive, I had always to say the right words and compliments. Damn stressful if you’re asking me.
I hope I will not be misunderstood with my comment, I would just love to hear your opinion and why not challenge us both.
Have a nice week!
Cheers,
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Dear Tatjana, first of all THANK YOU for reading and writing this comment! I’m happy to get a feedback and create a discussion.
However, I feel that either I didn’t write clearly enough or you got my text wrong because what I meant with this wasn’t that I’m a
sensitive person in a way that you have to “tip-toe” around me or such, but what I was ( have also mentioned it in the text ) pointing to
was the emotional-sensitive person, the one that is all about feeling everything times 10, so if there is for example a person that I love
struggling with something, I will feel their pain and feel consumed by it, want to help them out and easer their pain as much as possible.
None of the actions and feelings I’m talking about in my text are the selfish ones, quite the opposite.
Dearest Natali, I am exactly like you when it comes to being very sensitive…I know the good part and also all the side effects ! I wish so much we could hang around together, I feel we would make perfect friends also offline…and you are so beautiful, love your look ! Kisses
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Love this post, so insightful and you look incredible! x
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Thank you dear, I’m glad that you liked it!
this look is nice! very well put together!
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Thanks so much!
like the look..oh yeah….
Thank you! 🙂 <3
OMG. I love the bag!
Yea, it’s a cute one for sure. 🙂
I love this look so cool with all the accessories , your boots are so lovely
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Thank you so much Salome!
Looking super cute Loving this whole look! And loving this post!
xoxo,Victoria
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Thank you Victoria, I’m happy to read this. 🙂
Love your metallic jacket with the denim. Such a cool look! I am a more sensitive person too.
Amy Ann
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Thank you my dear Amy! I’m always happy to find out the similarities between us. 🙂
That’s such a pretty look on you! 🙂 Mind checking out the brand new BLES Magazine? I’d love to hear your opinion as an experienced blogger:)
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Thank you very much Malu!
Awesome look! You have such a unique sense of style. So cool! Love how you layered the turtleneck under the t-shirt.
-Rachel
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Awww, this is so sweet of you to say, thank you so much!!!
Such a cute layered look! Love that graphic tee
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Thank you so much Keri!
I adore the look!
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Thank you Nada!
I feel like on the inside I’m just like you but on the outside I’m exactly the opposite. People tell me I’m cold hearted all the time but in fact most of the times I’m either being practical or I’m just not showing what I truly feel. And I love your outfit, that jacket is gorgeous.
I totally understand what you mean Marta. Thank you for reading and commenting!
Loving the edgy ness of this look!
XO Sahra
Thank you very much Sahra!
I love book shops too! I loved this used book store by my house and I was so sad when it closed!
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Thank you for stopping by Kelsey! Sorry to read about the closing of your fave book store, it’s pity that there are
less and less of those.
Wow you rock this look babe! Love the shirt and those booties.. Too cute!
Xx,
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Thank you so much sweetheart, I’m happy to read that you liked this outfit!
This was such a lovely read, loved it! And you looks beautiful! 🙂 x
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Fantastic look, love the jacket, you look impecable. I also prefer to read physical books rather than downloaded ones. xoxoxo
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¡Me encanta el look! <3
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You look amazing! That bomber jacket is amazing! I love that color!
<3 Shannon
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LOVE LOVE LOVE this layered look!
Such a cute bomber!
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Love how you styled this look! Great layers! =)
– Cielo
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I never tried this sensitive feelings, but I think this book must be great to you!
Fabrizia – Cosa Mi Metto???
Love your look!!!!!!! ^_^
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I can so relate to this! I am a pretty sensitive person myself and care very deeply about my friends and family and even strangers!
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Wow such a beautiful post!! You look amazing in the photos!!
xx
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I just adore how your red lipstick matches your bag. SO chic!
Abigail Alice x
WOW gorgeous look on you. In love with the bag and the way you styled it. Xo Maya
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Great look! The shoes are amazing!
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great post! love the outfit 🙂
xxx tiffany lea
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Love the look. I think we all have degrees of sensitivity. It’s great that you’re sensitivity. I see it as a strength since you can better empathize with others. :]
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You look so gorgeous <3
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Love it, your outfit is GORGEOUS! I love the skirt so much, it looks so great all together. I totally agree, I prefer holding a real book in my hands instead of reading off my phone or a kindle. Thanks for sharing!
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You look so pretty!
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I can see I’m late in having my say on this post. Real books are FAB! Much nicer than E-books, and last almost forever. You cannot put your nose in an E-book and smell the goodness inside. Also, FAB is your outfit.
Jo
Love reading what you have to say! You are beautiful! xx, Erin – http://www.stylebythepeople.com
That shirt is so rad!! Stunning as always. Xx