Needing less, getting more

As you might remember from my previous posts, I’ve been mentioning that I would be attending my friend’s wedding and it happened two days ago in a little town on the South of Croatia. Little town in which I grew up, went to school in and have so much that still connects me to it. Some of the memories will never die and I will always in a way or another have special place for this town in my heart.

I was happy to bring along my daughter with me to the wedding ceremony to witness one of the most beautiful moments and highlights of any relationship. I know that real love doesn’t need any papers, stamps or “files” but when there is a wedding happening already, it’s such a sweet and magical moment which makes everybody equally happy and excited to see the smiles and proudness on the faces of the bride and groom.

Seeing my friend and her now husband getting married, having that magical love aura surrounding them and being just so truly happy in that moment, right there and then surrounded by the closest people made me realise how little we need to be truly happy and how often we think that we need this or that in order to be someday completely happy. I have already touched base on this same subject before and it’s more clear to me now than ever before that…

There’s no such thing as complete happiness and there are no formulas on how to get happiness come to or be part of your daily life. We all hurt and cry, we all laugh and love, it’s just up to our inner selves how much we’ll let the real happiness be part of our daily lives. Seeing my daughter being excited and happy about the smallest things such as Kinder Surprise and which toy she’ll get in it made me think more and realise that happiness truly does lie in the smallest things and it’s never about the big things, let alone materialistic ones. I have been “guilty” of thinking that having more will give you more happiness, stability, closure… Whatever! That’s bullocks my dear readers. Core of real happiness is inside of us and it’s not up to anybody else OR hoarding on things to make us happy… It’s up to us to let ourselves BE happy and appreciate the smallest, daily life miracles. It is a miracle and a pure happiness to open your eyes every day and know that you are alive, that you breathe, that you have a possibility to do a good deed, that you have a chance to put a smile on another person’s face, that you have the choice to surprise a friend with a flower bouquet… That you have an option to be happy and spread happiness anywhere you go. It’s not in the big things, it’s not in materialistic things… It’s in that kid’s honest smile, it’s in that perfect ice cream ball in a cone, it’s in the sun that is shining today…

Thank you for reading and commenting my dears, you are among other “small things” what makes me so happy day in-day out. :)

I’m wearing: Shoes – Marc by Marc Jacobs, Jeans – Tiger of Sweden, Shirt – Pepe Jeans, Bag – Chloe, Bracelet – HOH1960, Long blazer – Uusi Kuu, Trench – , Sunnies – Dita, Earrings – Chanel

67 Comments

    I love your casuals outfits :) you look great !
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      natali karppinen

      Thank you Nada, glad that you like them. :)

    sofia biffi

    you’re really chic….everything is perfectly combined!love this outfit
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      natali karppinen

      Thank you Sofia, you are so kind!

    I shall be reading your words many times today. They are so wonderful. Love your look for the wedding. I’ve mentioned before, that shade of blue is lovely on you. And the Trench, a must have in any wardrobe.

      natali karppinen

      Thank you so much Jo for always having the sweetest words and for your constant support. :)

        You are so sweet, too, Natali. You almost make me blush!
        Hugs.

    Wooowwww You are so much slim… But I like your style

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      natali karppinen

      Thank you for commenting.

    Martabarcelonastyle

    The red bag and the sunnies are so elegant :)

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      natali karppinen

      Thank you Marta, I love these sunnies!

    Ivana @ The Charming Avenue

    Natali, your words speak directly to my heart! We get so caught up in the rat race, working more, earning more, buying more, and we think it’ll bring us contentment (if not happiness), but to borrow your words, that’s “bollocks”. Happiness lies in waking up beside someone you love, in making the perfect homemade pizza, in the smell of the freshly mowed grass, and I could go on and on. It’s so important to remember this - so thanks so much for the reminder!
    I’m happy to read you again! Big hugs :)
    xo Ivana

      natali karppinen

      Thank you so much sweetheart on this comment, I appreciate it so much! I’m so happy that you can relate to this post and that we think the same about this subject. One of the biggest pleasures which I get from blogging, besides being able to inspire is to connect with likeminded people like you. :) :*

    Love your outfit! Looks so stylish!
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      natali karppinen

      Thanks dear!

    Inma Rocamora

    So chic!!
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      natali karppinen

      Thank you Inma!!

    Gorgeous outfit, you look lovely!

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      natali karppinen

      Thank you! I’m so glad that you liked the outfit!

    Love the outfit!! Super cute :)

    xo Raina
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      natali karppinen

      Thanks so much Raina!

    The Fashion Folks

    Love the red details, so chic! Xx

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      natali karppinen

      Thank you! :)

    Excellent post, great casual outfit and I am totally adoring your red Chloe bag!

    Kim
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      natali karppinen

      Awww, thanks so much!

    I really like how you’ve styled this outfit!

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      natali karppinen

      Thank you dear Rosalind!

    rakhshanda

    I love that bag <3 Great outfit!!

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      natali karppinen

      Thank you, you’re so sweet!

    Obožavam ove balerinke, crvena boja je baš podigla čitav look! :) Drago mi je da uživaš i da si se super provela na vjenčanju!

      natali karppinen

      I ja ih obozavam i vec nosim godinama. :) Je, bas je bilo predivno na vjencanju, skroz “netradicionalno” i posebno.

    Amy Arnold

    I love weddings! And how fun to visit your home town with your daughter. Loving your red shoes and bag.

    Amy Ann
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      natali karppinen

      Thank you sweet Amy! Yes, it’s wonderful to be able to bring my daughter with me and have her attend the wedding and also discover my home town too. :)

    Looking amazing as usual! Love that chambray blazer and that bag is so gorgeous!!

    <3 Shannon
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      natali karppinen

      Thank you sweetie, you’re always so nice to me!

    Uau really chic look, your shoes and bag are TOP! Kiss
    Federica - Cosa Mi Metto???

      natali karppinen

      Thank you so much Federica!!

    love this outfit so much!

    The White Ocean

      natali karppinen

      Thank you Lena, happy that you do!

    Lovely outfit! You look so chic and sophisticated!
    Kisses!

      natali karppinen

      Thank you Ana!!

    Love both these looks!! So Audrey Hepburn!! Xx

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    WOW!!!The total look is super cool!

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    Kelsey Bang

    ah those flats are the cutest! I just love your style!!!

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    Sheela Goh

    What a beautifully written post, Natali, and it’s true, we get more when we expect less. And I do think a marriage is such a wonderful thing for our children, regardless of gender, to see and feel and experience. The entire ceremony focuses on the importance of the non tangible which is how it ought to be :) you have a new fan in me xoxo

    Beautiful combo. You look lovely. And some good thoughts here. xoxoxo

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    Hadasah Love (Style to Love)

    Looking stunning top to bottom! You look wonderful
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    Lovin’ the pop of red, your styles is so chic :)

    I found ya on Instagram and started following you so I can keep up with your daily posts!

    stay styled,

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    ISA Professional

    This outfit is gorgeous from top to bottom, perfect for a day around town.

    ISA Professional

    Love the pop of red!
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    Linda Quinones

    This is such a gorgeous look! I love your pops of red and the trench coat.

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    The Sunday Mode

    Firstly, love the blue coat, it’s a beautiful colour and really flattering on your skin tone. Secondly, I enjoyed reading your post and being reminded of how we let ourselves get in the way of our own happiness sometimes by not appreciating the little things we have right now in our lives. Children are such good role models for living in the present.

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    Wow, your fashion statement is on point. :)

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    so in love with this Pop of red
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    Looks so lovely!

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    That trench is gorgeous!! And I love the red bag with it!

    xo Lauren
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    so chic! x http://www.the-beautiful-things.com/

    Beautiful outfit and photos! :) Obsessed with the details! :) x
    Helena
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    Beautiful photos. Love the bag!!

    Blonde in Cashmere

    Wonderful look!

    Greets from Greece :)

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    Lovely outfit Natalia! Hope you had fun at the wedding!
    Cheers,
    T.
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    love this look , Your red bag is perfection
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    Da, streća je stvarno u najmanjim stvarima, samo se mi ljudi trebamo uvijek iznova i iznova podsjetiti kada krememo stremiti previše prema visinama. :)
    Kombinacija je divna, baš sam i sama poludila za crvenim detaljima u obliku cipelica i ogrlica, baš podignu svaku kombinaciju. Naočale su mrak! :)

    sanssouci

    Beautiful outfits! Love this bag so much and the sunglasses!
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    What a classy look! Love it!

    ivana split

    djeca su ponekad najbolji učitelji, kada njih vidimo kako se raduju malim stvarima i kako znaju živjeti u trenutku, onda i sami shvatimo koliko je važno uvijek gledati život svježim očima i cijeniti njegovu ljepotu i kompleksnost. Divna kombinacija, sviđa mi se kako si uskladila crvene baletanke i torbicu.

    You look super elegant in those two coat <3

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