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Where is the love?!

June 13, 2016


I’m a person who barely ever watches TV. If I do watch TV then it’s usually Netflix. I never buy newspapers and I usually never read any even if I happen to see some newspapers at the cashier or at a favourite cafe.

I guess that thanks to FaceBook and my active friends, I do stay quite informed about what is going on in the world, but I take everything I read with a grain of salt and a “distant viewer” approach, meaning that I don’t take everything I read to be true, important or as dramatic as media tries to portray it to be.

Media is a powerful tool, I would say that they have the power to ruin and build the world. That is one of the reasons why I filter every news I come across and don’t allow big amounts of unnecessary information bother me. I like to live in “my own world” the one where I’m aware of what is going on around me and I do fulfil my “duties” but I also prefer to stay in that part of my own world which is ruled by love, goodness, inspiration, creativity and music. I live by the rules of heart and commands of the soul and I don’t know for better… No matter how many times I get “screwed” over for giving too much, loving too much and feeling everything so deeply… I end up hurt and upset quite many times, but I can’t live differently… I can’t “harden” my heart, be more thougher, distance myself from who I am by birth.

Ever since I was a little child, I have been led by my holy trinity of three : love, sea and music. If I had those three surrounding me, I was happy. To love and be loved in return is my motto and the biggest blessing and curse in my life. I always love too much, but so often stumble upon “closed” and hard hearts… In the past couple of years I’ve dealt with those kind of hearts too often and it all made me ask myself: “Where is the love?!” Even by filtering all of the media and information that reaches me, I can not understand all of the shootings and bombings going on all over the world. When was the spilling of blood an answer to anything? Who gives the right to a human to lift his/ her hand over the destiny of another person(s)?

Dear people… Hate, envy and darkness aren’t the roads to be followed… We all have the goodness, love and light inside of us, so the more you nurture them, the more they will prevail the dark side of us, which we all have. We are all made of yin and yang, it’s up to us which side we will choose to be. We can’t and won’t be another Mother Theresa and we don’t need to, that’s not what this article is all about, but I can not but not to realise that people have never been more as distant from each other and the source of goodness and love as they are in 2016. Situation needs to change immediately or we’ll be as good as robots and look more of a Arnold Schwarzenegger from the Terminator movie than a beautiful, sensitive and loving human race that we are supposed to be.

Peace, love and understanding… It’s not so hard to remember, acquire and spread these three words/ actions/ feelings. Let’s start today!

My heart goes out to all those affected in Beirut bombing and Florida shooting.





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  • Reply Violette June 13, 2016 at 7:51 AM

    Love this outfit!

  • Reply kanchan June 13, 2016 at 8:49 AM

    Lovely message and great thoughts darling, everyone knows it but they just forget to follow it in real life. It’s so imp to remain calm and happy by keeping others happy.
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  • Reply Martabarcelonastyle June 13, 2016 at 9:39 AM

    That black skirt is so chic and casual 🙂

  • Reply Jo June 13, 2016 at 9:44 AM

    Very few of us know what love is, or what love should be.
    We give our all, our hearts, and get little in return. People like us, Natali, because we are kind, caring and soft get ‘screwed’ all the time. Eventually, Life makes us more tough, but not much. We learn to get through. It is not only, where is the love. Where have the hugs gone? I am in need of one.
    Finally. I love that skirt. You always find one that’s so adorable.
    Look after yourself. HUGS X

  • Reply Jo June 13, 2016 at 10:02 AM

    Also. I, too have given up on TV, newspapers, news in general. Here in England we have been bombarded with the EU debate for months and months. And it has put many people off voting, because of all the lies told, they are confused. My heart tells me to vote, leave. My mind is in conflict with my heart. On the day it will be my gut feeling that tells me what to do.

  • Reply Matea June 13, 2016 at 10:04 AM

    Divno si ovo rekla, potpisujem apsolutno svaku riječ pogotovo jer i sama sve češće razmišljam o istim stvarima, pogotovo jer je nemoguće ostati imun na sve užase koji se događaju na svakodnevnoj bazi.
    Želim ti sjajan tjedan i fantastično mi izgledaš u ovoj kombinaciji, suknja je čisti bombončić! 🙂

  • Reply Tatjana June 13, 2016 at 10:26 AM

    I rarely read news too and I mostly live in my own world.
    My heart aches for the bombing in Beirut and Orlando. Why can’t we live and peace and treat each other with love? 🙁
    Cheers to you for this beautiful post.

  • Reply vale June 13, 2016 at 12:26 PM

    Such a beautiful post dear Natali…your pics are fab, I love your look (that skirt is perfect !) and the sweetness that I can see from your entire figure :). I do agree with you, when we read the news but even when we look besides us often we can’t help noticing hate, envy, and this is plain scary…life is too short but humans live as if they are immortal, and don’t cherish every moment. Life is a precious gift, yet it’s not respected…I am saddened by what I see. We may all be different, have different beliefs, languages and all but we all need LOVE ! Kisses

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  • Reply Hadasah Love (Style to Love) June 13, 2016 at 1:48 PM

    Love everything about this post! So cute!
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  • Reply Amy Arnold June 13, 2016 at 3:07 PM

    Love this skirt on you so much! I am with you – I’m not one to watch too much news. I always know what’s happening through social media, and there is so much sadness.

  • Reply The Newsette June 13, 2016 at 4:57 PM

    Thank you for the beautiful message and the beautiful look. Our hearts are heavy here at the Newsette, but your words and these gorgeous photos have definitely given us a needed uplift:)

    The Newsette

  • Reply Shannon June 13, 2016 at 4:58 PM

    Thank you so much for the love! It means so much!! You look amazing as usual! Loving that skirt!

    <3 Shannon
    Upbeat Soles

  • Reply Nada June 13, 2016 at 5:10 PM

    You look amazing ♥ !

  • Reply Jo June 13, 2016 at 5:57 PM

    Would that there was time to tell you about the average human heart. That it has to be broken nine times before it can work properly. Or that You should never give all your heart to one person, because when it gets broken, you have nothing left with which to make a new one. No, no time at all. x

  • Reply Toks June 13, 2016 at 11:13 PM

    Lovely message in this post. Too much hunger for power and money is not good. Loving that awesome skirt. xoxoxo

  • Reply Ivana June 13, 2016 at 11:21 PM

    Ma i ja stvarno ne razumijem kako itko moze vjerovati da nasilje moze i smije biti rjesenje… tuga i samo tuga kada otvorim novine… plus neki mediokritetni clanci o istim takvim osobama… Biti ce bolje… volim vjerovati da hoce!

    Kombica je divna… bas ti godi tvoj Sibenik, draga moja! Ah ta torbica! <3

  • Reply diana June 13, 2016 at 11:56 PM

    love your skirt

  • Reply milex June 14, 2016 at 4:45 AM

  • Reply Jackie June 14, 2016 at 5:12 AM

    Such a beautiful outfit, and beautiful words. I don’t understand how people can commit such violent acts. It’s heartbreaking and terrifying at the same time.

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  • Reply sepatuholig June 14, 2016 at 7:03 AM

    Very lovely lacey skirt! I love it!
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  • Reply Trang Do June 14, 2016 at 10:50 AM

    Love your skirt!! Soo beautiful dear!
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  • Reply Laure June 14, 2016 at 12:57 PM

    I fell in love with this skirt !!

  • Reply Miss Fair Lady June 14, 2016 at 1:25 PM

    Lovely post, you’re so cute and the outfit is precious! I invite you to my blog, may you feel as inspired as me with your blog.

  • Reply Lola June 14, 2016 at 2:49 PM

    You look wonderful hun 🙂
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  • Reply LAURA Larghetti June 14, 2016 at 3:19 PM

    lovely look and I really like your bag!
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  • Reply Tamara June 14, 2016 at 6:31 PM

    What a gorgeous skirt! I really love the lace layer!


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  • Reply Nuclear Glitter June 14, 2016 at 8:19 PM

    That skirt is amazing. You look lovely.

  • Reply Adi June 15, 2016 at 1:51 AM

    Such an amazing look! You look gorgeous babe!

    Adi xx

  • Reply Cielo June 15, 2016 at 7:47 AM

    Love that pretty skirt and those sunglasses…wow! =)

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    Mermaid in Heels

  • Reply Federica Spinelli June 15, 2016 at 2:41 PM

    Amazing look! kiss
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  • Reply d June 16, 2016 at 12:09 PM

    Gorgeous look! the skirt is so fab and those sunnies look gorgeous on you! i had to go for the square ones as my face is too round but they look fab in you xx

  • Reply Bonjour Chiara June 16, 2016 at 12:14 PM

    I hope we will find the reason again and very soon because these episodes should stop to exist! Love must win always and forever! <3

  • Reply Paula Corzo July 7, 2016 at 3:28 PM

    Your handbag is lovely and of course the outfit too!!

  • Reply Sophie July 11, 2016 at 2:55 PM

    That skirt looks absolutely cute <3

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