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Do you bleed?

May 23, 2016


There’s a thought that’s been on my mind a lot lately… Sometimes, it’s been so present in my daily life that I’ve been loosing sleep over it. Maybe because I’m a too sensitive soul, maybe because I’m a mom that wants the best future and society possible for my daughter… Maybe it’s just because I bleed?! I bleed like everybody else does… Some people hide their sorrows better, some aren’t as skilful, but we all do, indeed bleed. What I’m talking about is – judging! Why do we judge each other so easily? We are not know it alls and we’re not more special than the person we’re “looking wrong” at.

We’re beautiful, unique creatures, all sent to this earth with our unique personality which was sent down here to make a difference… Even the smallest difference is a significant one and the one that was supposed to be done. Maybe we were sent here to influence by talking or maybe by singing… Maybe we were supposed to “touch” other people’s hearts by our beautiful paintings… Maybe we were sent down here to be somebody’s mom, a life teacher, maybe a daughter which will hold our hand through though moments in life, maybe we were supposed to write so beautifully that we would inspire others by that. We were all sent down to this earth with a special purpose and a good, positive, kind one that is.

Something that we might not all be aware of is that as much as we are unique, everybody else is too. As much as we’r vulnerable, others are too… No matter what it may seem on the outside, we all need the support from each other, understanding, love.

Way too many times I’ve seen people pointing fingers at each other, starting or continuing constant fights over such meaningless things… So many times bad and ugly things overshadow the beautiful moments we could be living. Only if we would see more clearly, only if we would try bit harder to be there for each other, if we would try to be more acceptive and understanding of each other, this world would be a much better and more promising place to raise our children in.

We both have good and bad sides inside of us… We are the devil that we feed. What you give out is what you build yourself of. The bad thoughts about yourself or others will always prevent you from completely finding beauty, goodness and magic of life… But remember, once you’ll bleed, you’ll want that saving, comforting hand and there won’t be a single one if you’ve lacked to give one when it was needed.

If we would just open up our eyes more often and instead of staring into our phones, tv and laptop screen and instead of living on the “auto-mode”, maybe we would see how much we and everybody around us needs a change, help and a promise of a better future.

I’m wearing: Dress – Zara, Sandals – Isabel Marant, Bag – Gucci, Sunglasses – Chanel, Ring – Deni design, Bracelet – Givenchy





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  • Reply Jennifer May 23, 2016 at 8:27 AM

    You look so beautiful! I love this dress!! Have a great start to the week!

    xo, Jennifer

    • Reply natali karppinen May 23, 2016 at 8:34 AM

      Thank you so much sweetheart! Have a great week too! 🙂

  • Reply Carmen May 23, 2016 at 8:56 AM

    A really good post you’ve got here girl! I like your attitude. This outfit is just gorgeous – I love that dress!
    xx, Carmen –

  • Reply Jo May 23, 2016 at 9:09 AM

    Oh, Natali. If I could write half as well as you, there would be so much I could tell. Yes. I bleed. When we become a parent the World and ever thing on it changes. We want the best for our children and mankind. Or should that be womankind, too.
    You will always have my support, understanding and love.
    I love the designs on your dress. Another dress that is so you. Hugs.

  • Reply Trang Do May 23, 2016 at 9:11 AM

    Love your dress! You looks so beautiful!
    Love from {a lifestyle, fashion, beauty, and food blog}

  • Reply vale May 23, 2016 at 9:53 AM

    I love it how you are beautiful not just on the outside, but inside…your sensitive soul and caring soul shows from your eyes, dear Natali…I wish more people thought like you, I couldn’t agree more ! Looking gorgeous in this dress – I have the same dress but sadly haven’t worn it almost at all, maybe I am still in time to wear it before the heat explodes here in Italy ! Many kisses beautiful princess

    Fashion and Cookies – fashion and beauty blog

  • Reply Daniel May 23, 2016 at 10:12 AM

    Nice outfits! That dress is really amazing!

    Daniel x
    The Daniel Originals | Instagram: danielpoonvignez
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  • Reply The Ocean's Dock May 23, 2016 at 10:29 AM

    Great outfit! I love that dress! xx

  • Reply Salome May 23, 2016 at 11:06 AM

    This dress is so cool and looks really great with your bag dear
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  • Reply Federica Spinelli May 23, 2016 at 11:11 AM

    Your dress is really cool, you’re delicious in this pics! kiss
    Federica – Cosa Mi Metto???

  • Reply coco May 23, 2016 at 11:40 AM

    You are so beautiful and charming girl

  • Reply Carrie May 23, 2016 at 11:52 AM

    lovely Dress

  • Reply Matea May 23, 2016 at 12:20 PM

    Ooo da, i sama često razmišljam o ovome i nikada neću shvatiti tu potrebu da budemo zli jedni prema drugima, da omalovažavamo, vrijeđamo…a zašto? Mislim da je jedini način da se borimo protiv toga totalna kontra – promicati ljubav, prijateljstvo, ohrabrenje i pozitivno razmišljanje i ako pritom uspiješ dotaknuti makar jednog pojedinca, to je uspjeh.

    Btw, preslatko ti stoji ova haljinica! 🙂

  • Reply Bekleveer May 23, 2016 at 1:00 PM

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  • Reply Julia Nacheva May 23, 2016 at 1:00 PM

    Beautiful outfit, that suits you on 100% 🙂 amazing bag, by the way

  • Reply Yuliya Oleynykova May 23, 2016 at 1:34 PM

    to be honest the best lesson I’ve learnt in my life is not to judge anyone. You never know why person made the thing the way they did it. So.. no judgement x
    Yuliya at Yukova Blog UK

  • Reply Shannon May 23, 2016 at 3:17 PM

    Soooo in love wth this dress! The patchwork print is just too pretty! Gorgeous!

    <3 Shannon
    Upbeat Soles

  • Reply Alissa May 23, 2016 at 3:34 PM

    You look stunning! The cut of that is so gorgeous!

    The Adored Life

  • Reply Amy Arnold May 23, 2016 at 3:35 PM

    You look so lovely in this midi dress with your great bag. You’re so right. I don’t know why we judge. It is ugly and only hurts everyone involved.

    Amy Ann
    Straight A Style

  • Reply Jessi May 23, 2016 at 3:39 PM

    Great message! And love your dress and photos!

    XOXO – Jessi

  • Reply Deborah May 23, 2016 at 5:03 PM

    Beautiful dress, and the bag is stunning to! I just discovered your blog and I love it!


  • Reply Nada May 23, 2016 at 6:34 PM

    great look !

  • Reply Vittoria May 23, 2016 at 7:15 PM

    love that dress & bag! xo from nyc //

  • Reply Anouk May 23, 2016 at 7:38 PM

    Cool outfit! I love that bag!

  • Reply Jo May 23, 2016 at 7:58 PM

    I can not bear to think of you losing sleep. It will keep me awake. But I think judging, in
    Humans early existence, was a survival strategy, to decide what was safe and not safe.
    You could say, what was mad, bad and dangerous to know.
    I’m sure even I can aspire to two of those faults.
    Have a good night’s sleep Natali. X

  • Reply barbiegirl06 May 23, 2016 at 10:15 PM

    Great outfit and beautiful post! People are strange nowdays, they need to judge and put other people down in order to feel better. And it’s just wrong. “Confidence is silence, insecurities are loud.”

  • Reply Taylor May 23, 2016 at 11:07 PM

    LOVE your bag!
    Thats the next one on my list.

  • Reply Toks May 23, 2016 at 11:47 PM

    I totally agree with everything you have written here. Excellent post. You look adorable in this dress. xoxoxo

  • Reply rachel vogt May 24, 2016 at 7:49 AM

    Such a lovely dress. Love your bag.
    xoxo, Rachel

  • Reply Andréa May 24, 2016 at 12:33 PM

    seriously love this dress!
    i love the unique print of the fabric and i am pretty obsessed with anything midi at the moment. super cute!


    A.Viza Style

  • Reply grazia May 24, 2016 at 1:42 PM

    i love this outfit 🙂

  • Reply Ann Otton May 24, 2016 at 5:42 PM

    I really like the combination of patterns on the dress with that bag! x

  • Reply Jenna Colgrove May 24, 2016 at 6:38 PM

    Wow that print is absolutely fantastic!

    Jenna from

  • Reply Raina May 24, 2016 at 8:39 PM

    First of all, your outfit is so cute! And second, I enjoyed reading your post!! I am so guilty of always being on my laptop and phone. Great reminder to “open our eyes” <3

  • Reply Kelsey Bang May 25, 2016 at 12:17 AM

    love the dress with sandals! such a darling look!

  • Reply Lauren May 25, 2016 at 4:14 AM

    Love that dress so much!

    xo Lauren

  • Reply Ivana May 25, 2016 at 10:41 PM

    Ima jedna anegdota… znam ženu kojoj se dogodilo… došao joj je radnik popraviti telefonsku liniju u ured i ona je vikala i derala se i svašta nešta jer stvari nisu funkcionirale i čovjek ju je samo mirno pogledao i rekao :” Vi mora da ste beskrajno nesretna žena.”
    Uvijek se sjetim toga kada pročitam kakave zle komentare ili čujem i vidim zle ljude. Oni su nesretni. Točka. Problem je što su često i slijepi i ne vide. Ne treba im vraćati mržnjom već ljubavlju. Ukoliko nastave, maknuti se. Shvatiti će jednoga dana. Barem ja volim vjerovati u to.
    Haljina je divna, kao i ti. ma ti si uvijek tako gracilna i lijepa! Torbica mi je i dalje <3

  • Reply Federica Spinelli May 26, 2016 at 12:52 PM

    I really love your bag! kiss
    Federica – Cosa Mi Metto???

  • Reply ivana split May 26, 2016 at 11:07 PM

    predivan tekst…doista da je manje osuđivanja i više razumijevanja, ovaj svijet bi bio puno bolje mjesto. Nikome u ovome svijetu nije lako, svatko ima teških dana i moramo se uvijek toga sjetiti prije nego što nekoga počnemo kritizirati.

    Ova haljina je prekrasna, a i sandale su fantazija…torbu moram posebno izdvojiti iako inače nisam nešto luda za torbama, ova je baš nešto posebno.

  • Reply Sophie June 1, 2016 at 1:17 PM

    That dress is so unique and beautiful <3

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  • Reply Adi June 3, 2016 at 2:57 AM

    Great read babe! And I love your look! Such a beautiful print!!

    Adi xx

  • Reply Team apparel June 16, 2016 at 12:28 PM

    wow !
    so beautiful bag , i just love the print over it

  • Reply Fashion and Frappes July 5, 2016 at 12:18 PM

    Love that dress but sadly it didn’t fit me at all. You look so great in it!

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